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Let God Write My Love Story

It is so easy to pick up a book and read stories about falling in love. It is so easy to fantasize about falling in love with the perfect person. And hard for most people to wait, and that leaves most people blind to the fact that they have just awaked certain yearnings too early. And the results of thoes romantic books and even movies lead to temptation and trouble, people will start finding themselves battling with thoughts. For me I use to read love stories and watch romantic movies, thinking of the perfect guy for me. I wanted to feel the way the girls felt in the movies and books. I know I am not alone, because every girl wants to be loved but with some guidance as to what these books and movies can do (awaked love too early) I had to pull myself away from these things. I see the importance in guarding my heart and waiting for my husband. I don’t want to give away myself to any guy that is not mine. I don’t want to fantasize being with a guy that God did not intend for me to be with. I learned that physical purity and emotional purity is very important and I should be saving that for my husband. Even if God does not call me to be married I still must have my heart guarded. But if God does call me to be a married woman, I want to wait and let God write my love story in stand of rushing into love too soon.


Anonymous said…
Praise God that you understand this at a young age!
Anonymous said…
chaka ~
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